There are 𝟯 𝗠𝗔𝗜𝗡 𝗡𝗘𝗘𝗗𝗦 that our children ask of us through their behaviour:
– the need to be 𝙨𝙚𝙚𝙣 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙝𝙚𝙖𝙧𝙙
– the need to feel 𝙬𝙤𝙧𝙩𝙝𝙮 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙫𝙖𝙡𝙪𝙚𝙙
– the need to know they 𝙢𝙖𝙩𝙩𝙚𝙧 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝙞𝙢𝙥𝙤𝙧𝙩𝙖𝙣𝙩.
According to Dr Shafeli, a parenting expert, she says that we need to adjust our parenting approach to consciously fulfil the needs of our child and not the other way around.
I have been working with parents and their children for over 4 years as a Kids Empowerment Coach, and I have seen firsthand how parents can damage their child’s self esteem by trying to restrict them to confirm to their ideals and dreams.
Empower your child with confidence and give them permission to blossom into their own authentic selves.
When we see our children as teachers, every opportunity becomes a chance to learn and grow together.